The fact you have a Husky/lab mix is the toughpart. Huskys are very tough to train to be a "house" dog.

I would start by when you or your wife are home, have them on a leash and you both handling him. This will help with obediance
and also allow for only movement you want to have happen.
Reduce your commands to single words that you both agree upon. Stick with the simple commands and use themn often.

Some dogs honestly need a good beating with a switch to get it throught heir heads.
Im not advocating hurting them, but a good spanking may be in order to get
his mind to think obedience.
Also offer tons a treats when he does something good or posative. This will reinforce posative behavior.

I have a pitbull and he is very well behaved due to the fact I have been
training him since I got him at 8 weeks old and I use 1 words for his commands
and he understands them very well.