Divorce, so close!

[glock21]

So my Wife and I have been seperated for 1.5 years and have been dicussing divorce. I have been doing alot of thinking about how much I still really love her. Ive been cold towards her thinking she wants a divorce and it would help her move on.
yesterday i recieved a text message asking me when i stopped loving her. I sat back to think and realized im still in love with her. After a night of talking wr both realized we cant be happy without eachother and are hoping to make our family work no matter how hard times get.

sometimes life hits you hard for the better. I want my family back and im willing to fight till the end. HAVE A GOOD DAY BROTHERS!

[hghclsswhitetrsh]

Wow man, good news. Good luck to you both.

[spleify]

That was a statement from a true man.

Congrats and good luck man. If you feel things are getting tough, give me a shout and lets talk it out.

[Mazin]

congrats man!

[DD977GM2]

Your a bettre man than I. If I got seperated by my suggestion or her suggestion,
its the end for the marriage for good in my mind.
I have been through 1 divorce and dealt with the "trying" and it wasnt worth it
one bit.

Good luck and hoping for the best for you guys

[cofi]

Your a bettre man than I. If I got seperated by my suggestion or her suggestion,
its the end for the marriage for good in my mind.
I have been through 1 divorce and dealt with the "trying" and it wasnt worth it
one bit.

Good luck and hoping for the best for you guys

this....i dont mean to be a wet blanket but after 1.5 years your probably just romanticizing the old relationship

[glock21]

Thanks guys. Im not a naive man. I know when its time to walk away. We seperated over me being hard headed. I wasnt willing to change my ways. For those of you that know me can understand lok. Ive grown a bit more and understand its a 50/50 effort to make any relationship work. Ive only been in half of the 50. We all grow up sooner or later and mine was later.

[JoeT]

good for you man...I've been married 17 years and the night before my wedding, my wife's grandfather pulled me aside.

he said "getting divorced is easy, staying married is hard work...but it's worth it"

his wife passed away last year after 70 years together

[BPTactical]

good for you man...I've been married 17 years and the night before my wedding, my wife's grandfather pulled me aside.

he said "getting divorced is easy, staying married is hard work...but it's worth it"

his wife passed away last year after 70 years together

This is true. My folks have been married for 62 years. My wife and I have been married 25.
I asked my dad early on how they did it.
Love is not enough, it takes hard work, wanting it to work and thinking about something greater than yourself.

[CO Hugh]

This is true. My folks have been married for 62 years. My wife and I have been married 25.
I asked my dad early on how they did it.
Love is not enough, it takes hard work, wanting it to work and thinking about something greater than yourself.

+1 It is probably the most difficult endeavor, business partnerships are easier because people don't get their feelings hurt with direct language.

Prayers for you, and congratulations.