Good for you David! I've been married to my wife 6.5yrs now and about two years ago we both wanted to call it quits. After we decided we wanted this marriage, we chose counseling. Im not a man to really listen to others and thought I didnt need anyone telling me how to live my life......damn I was wrong. It saved my marriage and helped us help each other. Right now im writting this sitting in the hospital waiting for my first child to be born in a couple hours!!!