Divorce, so close!

[ezgoinrob]

Good luck dude!

Ez

[hobowh]

Good to hear you guys always seemed good together. Remember you can always do other things when the others show up.

[cstone]

Everyone else has pretty much said what needs to be said.

There is plenty of time for rest when you are finished. In the meantime, we all keep working. Sometimes the work is harder than others.

Personally, I would rather work hard with my wife along side than rest easy without her.

I will pray for you, your marriage, and all marriages.

As the family goes, so goes the nation.

Be safe.

[opie011]

Good for you David! I've been married to my wife 6.5yrs now and about two years ago we both wanted to call it quits. After we decided we wanted this marriage, we chose counseling. Im not a man to really listen to others and thought I didnt need anyone telling me how to live my life......damn I was wrong. It saved my marriage and helped us help each other. Right now im writting this sitting in the hospital waiting for my first child to be born in a couple hours!!!

[T-Giv]

Dude I am so pumped! Does this mean you are moving back up here??

[glock21]

Thanks guys. Im going to try my hardest. Opie congrats brother. Let me know if you need anytging. T-giv i dont know yet lol. Thanks Will, you know us the best. Thanks again guys.

[MrPrena]

Great news.

[KevDen2005]

I'm not a marriage counselor, but I sit on the board of directors of a group that does counseling. They only counsel couples that are critical. Most are on the edge of divorce or already in the middle of it. In many, many cases there have been one or more affairs.

Our success rate is North of 90%. That's no BS, and we've been doing it for 9 years now. Considering the divorce rate for first time marriages hovers around 50%, it's pretty amazing.

I said all that to say this: nearly all marriages can be saved. In fact, based on our experience, the only ones that can't are those where one or both quit.

Our group uses techniques and tools from all over the counseling world. Training is continuous. These are not so-so counselors, they are superb.

Find one like that, or I can possibly help point you in the right direction if you have an interest. It is a Christ centered philosophy, so if that doesn't work for you I may not be able to make a good recommendation.

Regardless of your spiritual leanings, the principals of a happy marriage are about universal, so it's just a matter of finding someone who knows them.

Good luck!

And you stayed in a Holiday Inn Express?!

Seriously, that's really awesome. I am happily married and get extremely annoyed when people ask me how married life is and I say that it's good. Then those people say, that will change. I just wanna punch them in the face. Don't bother me with the your BS or your failed marriages and even if I was having a rough married life I wouldn't tell them anyway.

[02ducky]

Congrats, keep up the good fight! Might be difficult, but it take two to work on things.

[wctriumph]

Women need to feel secure

Men need to feel significant

That is hard work for the both of you

Worked for me and mine for 32 years now