Quote Originally Posted by Atrain1 View Post
I was just thinking about the 2-3 inch barrel, expanding issues with smaller rounds. I figure if you have a 45 you do not need to worry about expanding issues. As far as gun experience she has none, I am still talking her into the idea of getting one. I explained to her that she needs training, cause without it the gun might end up being used against her. I am going to teach her what I can when I go out, after that I was planning on having her take a class. I am not aware if anything exists like that there do to their stupid laws. Seems like the criminals have more right in Comifornia than the people do. I am thinking that she would be okay with a bigger gun with me teaching her, but I guess I could be way off base.
People need to stop equating BIGGER with being OK. Here's what you need to ask yourself and the X.
Can she clear a jam in under 1.5 sec
Can she rack the slide if a FTFire happens in under 1.5 sec
Can she clear a stovepipe in under 1.5 sec

I am going out on limb and say the answer to all the above is no. Your level of training transferring over to an inexperienced shooter no matter how much you know, will only sink in and register so far.
She doesn't need a bigger gun, she needs a gun she can handle well, be able to hit COM (consistently) with, feel comfortable and confident with, every time she uses it.
Get her a revolver and let her learn on that. Getting her a 40 or 45 because that is what you feel comfortable with could put her in danger if not cost her, her life.
What works for you sure as hell does not work for every one. I cannot tell you how many MEN sent their SO to a class with their 45, and they were a danger to not only themselves but anyone within range.
Once in CA see about going to an indoor range that rents guns. Spend the money, before spending the money.

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