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    Default Getting a Divorce

    So as you might surmise by the title my life kinda sucks right now. It has for a while though and honestly I feel more relieved than upset about it now that my wife has left me. Normally I don't vent personal problems on here but I figure that there might be a couple people out there that could give me some good advice. It has been a rough couple months, and the worst part is that I have been (and will be for a while) so broke that I cant even bring myself to look at the trading post. Sucks ass. But either way the split was mutual, we agree on property division and have no children.

    My motto used to be try everything once, but now after trying marriage, fuck that. I guess that now I get to try divorce too. Man I just cant wait until the smoke blows over and everything is finalized. Anyone out there considering getting married, you better be damn sure that you have everything nailed down and agree on everything before you pop the question. I'm not exaggerating, literally everything that is important to you. I thought that we could work some of that stuff out with time, but the truth is you cannot change someone and they will be who they are now and forever. I'll probably be that bitter a-hole that is always on here because I cant afford to do a damn thing else for a while, so don't hold it against me. Thank God I bought enough reloading supplies to keep me busy and shooting for a while.

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    I'm a dude, I swear! SuperiorDG's Avatar
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    Sucks now, but it will get a lot better. My marriage was so stressful before the divorce I was having panic attacks. Now everything is great and life is much better. Things end for a reason, and you will see this clearly one day.

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    sorry to hear this although I think you will find greater happiness in the end
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    Been there buddy. I was in a holding pattern for a while. Don't say you will never get hitched up again you never know who will walk into your life.
    Keep your head up and smile. Things will turn and before you know it you will be back in the trading posts and the game.
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    Sorry to hear about that man. I know how you feel, my girl and i didn't really work out either, and we have a kid together so it makes it that much harder. Just keep your head up and never lose sight of who you are, like stated above it didn't work out for a reason and with time it will be a sigh of relief.

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    Divorce really sucks. But it sounds like you are smart in cutting your losses and moving on. I wish you all the best

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    I've been there as well. I came out so much better on the other side. Bury yourself in some work or a hobby and have some fun that you couldn't have before.

    On the bright side, this is the best part of your situation:

    Quote Originally Posted by Danimal View Post
    But either way the split was mutual, we agree on property division and have no children.
    My divorce was the same, and all it cost me was $75 to file the paperwork with the court. I feel bad for these fellas that go through it and it costs them everything they have.
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    just got divorced and am 1111000% feeling better. PM me if you want to talk

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    What's the saying I'm thinking of? Something along the lines of "only one vagina, the rest of your life." Well, that's not the case for you anymore my friend. Look on the bright side .

    Also, don't worry about being a bitter a-hole on here, unless it goes on forever. That's what online forums are for, right? Don't we generally give each other props for our "rant" threads anyway!?
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