Ex Wife: What would you think?

[cofi]

Women are emotional vindictive creatures. They like others to be on their side and love gossip. Her posting this not only fuels her need for attention but her hive mentality as all of her friends "like" it, it will make her feel more important. In the old times they used to gossip by phone. Now they use facebook. Same shit as 50 years ago.

My advice? Find some new ass. Different social circle. Then post happy photos about how much she enjoys you. Best revenge.

[DHC]

Looks like she removed it or unfriended me. Perhaps someone with better since told her she was a dumb ass.

You ought to consider making a file so that you can keep evidence of such things. The courts are quite serious about 'parental alienation' and they WILL take punitive steps against the actor.

In any case, you should never retaliate. It isn't good for the kids, it elevates your blood pressure, and you lose the high ground you will need should you decide to take matters into the courtroom.

FWIW

[ronaldrwl]

Screen capture the image and send a private message saying something like "Thanks for good evidence encase there's a custody case." That should keep her from posting more crap and put a scar into her.

[Ronin13]

YOU, do everything in your power to be as involved in your kids life as possible. If you have a daughter, take her on a date every week and let her talk and confide in you rasing a lady. If you have a son, encourage him, play with him, raise a princely gentleman.

Matthew 5:10 Blessed are they who are persecuted for righteousness' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Never say a mean word to or about your X in their pressence. Show them that they want to be like you and not full of hate.

If you can do this, you will be happier, live longer and your kids will thank you. In reality, all of America should thank you for raising good citizens instead of victims full of hate.

This is some damn good advice! I just hope I never get married, have kids and then divorced and be forced to follow this advice... But still- let her be the hateful, mean and vitriolic one, you be the nice guy!

[Inconel710]

Another vote for document and don't react. I've suspected my ex of saying negative things about me to our daughter, but never let it bother me. The one time I yelled at her was when she attempted to interfere in my communication with my daughter - that got my blood boiling and I threatened to take her back to court. Otherwise, I try to keep our interactions cordial and respectful. Not that it gets reciprocated, but I think my daughter can tell the difference now that she's 17.

And yes, living better is the best revenge.

[Dunecrazzy]

What's this Facebook you talk about? MySpace is where it's at!