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    COAR-15 blanket party??

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    Didn't read every post, sorry if already said. 1 felon with gun. Cops come and her testimony is irrelevant. He is going away for illegal possession.. 2. Any DV call results in an overnight arrest of at least one spouse. 3. The risk of you going to jail is too great to take this on yourself. Talk to her, try to convince her this is the right course. If she say no call the cops anyway. She may not go along willingly, but you have to do what you can within the law to get her out of there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DSB OUTDOORS View Post
    COAR-15 blanket party??
    Man, when I hear stories like this I wish we could all just band up and kick some serious ass. Of course that would be dumb as shit, but it does feel good to think about it.

    When my wife was having serious trouble with her ex, I had fantasies of taking him out this way and that. And I mean I had pretty detailed plans in my head of how I would lure this asshat out of his house, pop him and disappear. In the end, the justice system had his way with him. He lost...bigtime...and I didn't have to commit murder. I WIN!

    Figuring out a way to have the system ruin this douche is the better way, if you have the chance. But man, a guy beating up my 7 month pregnant sister? It would be difficult to restrain myself.

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    Been here, done this. The bottom line is she must want out or like some one else said " you don't know him, he loves me blah. Shitty situation. Good luck I hope it all works out

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    You have only one course of action and that is to have her report it to the Police. The fact that you have mentioned that you would love to cause this guy harm on a public forum will only get you thrown in jail in the end. The internet is wide open and anything you post can and will be used against you.

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    She is your sister. What has she told you she wants to do? Have you talked to your wife to discuss offering your sister and her child a refuge from her attacker?

    If your sister needs a ride from where ever she is, to a safe place, PM me and we will make that happen.

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    Simple fact is that as the most law abiding person in the room YOU have the most to lose when the police show up.

    You touch this guy (unless it's a VERY clear cut case of defense with plenty of witnesses) and you will lose your CCW and probably your 2A rights altogether (and probably some freedom) and still not adequately protect your sister from him. Now is the time for you to do everything 100% by the book even though you really want to just drag this filth out into the woods and bury him (and I'd say you're justified for feeling that way ... just don't act that way).

    So I'd let the police handle this ... if she refuses to call the police on him and she refuses to get a restraining order and/or take further legal action against him then the sad truth is that she has made her bed and she must lie in it.
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    I'd say sleep with his wife, film it, and send him the tape... But that'd be awkward...

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    Your sister doesn't need to press charges. It's up to the investigating officer in the case of domestic violence. Even if she denies that she's been struck, if there is evidence that she has been, arrest is mandatory. Police should be contacted during or immediately after the assault (not days or weeks later)
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