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    I'm an even tempered guy but my sisters husband has been hitting her
    and she is 7 months pregnant and I want blood right now

    He is a former golden glove and I know I can take him but fuck
    man still injured from my motorcycle accident and I'd re-injure myself.

    I want blood right fucking now and he is lucky I'm tits up for wheels right now.



    ETA: he is a former felon so if I beat him to a pulp he will not go to cops and I have no clue if she will press charges
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    You're in luck i happen to have a car with 3/4 tank of gas.
    Unless your sister is willing to file charges, you will end up being the bad guy.
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    I think you would be best to follow the legal course. Is your sister willing to press charges?

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    Yep I don't deal well with that one. Any coward that hits a woman deserves to get a royal ass whopping. Call the pd then go from there.


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    I don't know if she will press charges and he knows I carry a pistol everywhere. He is nervous about me not that I'd ever un-holster.

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    Talk to her first and find out. It would feel best to handle this yourself but in the end he will walk and you will be in the hooscow. Not worth it.

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    There's the legal way which is to call the police and let them handle it. In many jurisdictions the abused spouse doesn't get a say in whether he is arrested or not. This takes the burden of responsibility off of the victim. If there is any visible physical evidence of abuse, he gets arrested and an automatic restraining order goes into effect.

    While I don't endorse or encourage this, the other way is to get a group of gents to find him alone someplace private and give him a dose of his own medicine, all the while telling him that they heard he likes to hit women. This can backfire in lots of ways though.

    I can guarantee that if YOU go after him you will get arrested. Guys like this will use the system to their favor when they feel threatened. Be wary of being alone with him too. Since he knows you carry, he could lodge a pre-emptive strike against you by calling the police and claiming you pulled your gun on him. I know it's your sister, but is it worth giving up your freedom or gun rights for life (assuming you get nailed for a felony)? Also keep in mind that according to CO law, he can have you charged with felony menacing just because he fears you - nothing more.
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    i can offer advice .... none of it is law abiding , but i can offer

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    Quote Originally Posted by DD977GM2 View Post
    I don't know if she will press charges and he knows I carry a pistol everywhere. He is nervous about me not that I'd ever un-holster.

    he is a former felon


    X police dispatch how may i help you. yes there is a man with a gun threatening my sister.
    UNLESS she presses charges, she will never leave him AND more than likely sign a deposition / statement against you, taking his side.
    It sucks, but until she chooses to make the next move your hands are tied. Now if you happen to "walk in" while your sister is being attacked that becomes a game changer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by birddog View Post
    Talk to her first and find out. It would feel best to handle this yourself but in the end he will walk and you will be in the hooscow. Not worth it.
    This^^ If she will press charges for sure! Kick his ASS!!!
    Be true to your Family and Friends! A handshake, and your word is all it takes!!

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