I'll definitely look into the TPO . We are keeping full records of everything and all contact has been in text form that we are keeping , all time stamped. At this point we are hoping he has gotten the point and there will be no further communication. There definitely won't be from our side. If there is then we will inform him of our next action of a RO and go from there. Currently he doesn't know we've made a report and spoken to the police. I have no intention of placing his well being over my family,
Honestly...if you're not legally obligated to inform him you are getting a RO I wouldn't. If he tries to contact again just go get the RO. The old addage is true...actions speak louder than words.
Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that - George Carlin