Wow, tons of great feedback! I like thought of a p22 for training but as mentioned, you can develop some bad habits. I think I'm going to just head to a local shop and have her hold a few rigs and see what feels good in the hands. I know I thought my old M&P 9 compact what really comfy and since she's a fan of the shield that may be a good start. I'll make a list of some suggestions and go check em out. Thanks for all the input guys! And I might have to take you up on the offer sometime J.