And boom goes the dynamite...

[BEELZEBOB]

Well i was going to get married this summer.

I was going to have a baby too. But we lost the baby a month ago and she turned cold...

Literally threw the ring at me on Sunday.

I'm moving out, but Shane Co. will only give me 50% of my 6k back...

Now Im just waiting for my truck to break down and my dog to die, LOL and I could write a country song.

But in all seriousness, anyone know a good Jeweler?

[griebel303]

Damn man. Sorry to hear that. Hopefully things start looking up for you. The only jeweler I really work with is Shane Co as well, but I haven't tried to sell anything back to them.

[BEELZEBOB]

No worries, such is life right?

[HBARleatherneck]

i dont usually comment on thesekind of threads but....

I am truly sorry for the loss of the baby. I cant know how you feel about it, but it would kill me. I can only imagine the pain that both of you are going through. If you truly love her, dont say anything that you cant take back. Hurt does eventually subside and maybe progress can be made to restore your relationship.

[Sawin]

Crap dude, I'm sorry you're having to go through that mess. I wish there was something I could do or say that would help. Do you think she's just cold because of the emotional turmoil of the miscarriage, or is there truly no hope of rectifying your relationship? Have you considered standing strong for her and by her side during this, that maybe it might save at least that part of it?... not to mention possibly avoiding the loss on the ring.

[BEELZEBOB]

Thanks guys.

She has pushed my away for a long time. Even prior to the miscarriage. In her own words she has been unbelievably cruel.

Its only been 5 days, but right now I feel that it would be best to just stop before it gets any worse.


It was just another hard blow to find I lost 3k on her instability...

[jhood001]

It was just another hard blow to find I lost 3k on her instability...

3 grand is a small price to pay if it prevents you from having a miserable marriage. Best of luck to ya.

[kidicarus13]

3 grand is a small price to pay if it prevents you from having a miserable marriage. Best of luck to ya.

Since jewelry store jewelry is marked up so much consider it a $3K lesson and move forward best you can. Next time you buy an engagemenmt ring buy it with the intention that you will never get it back, you could have lost the entire $6K value of the ring. I look at it like loaning money to friends and family ...if you can't afford to not get paid back, don't offer the money. Oh ya... and time will slowly numb the hurt.

[wax_job]

3 grand is a small price to pay if it prevents you from having a miserable marriage. Best of luck to ya.

Truer words never spoken.

Regardless... Sorry for the loss of your child, that hurts my heart.

[Dave]

Thanks guys.

She has pushed my away for a long time. Even prior to the miscarriage. In her own words she has been unbelievably cruel.

Its only been 5 days, but right now I feel that it would be best to just stop before it gets any worse.


It was just another hard blow to find I lost 3k on her instability...

Divorce later on would cost more than 3k and be more of an emotional toll.