Rough times

[Doc45]

A good friend doesn't have much time left on this earth and has asked me to make sure his few firearms get dispersed to a select list of folks. Met yesterday with him and his ex, they have a decent relationship though I had never met her before. She wanted to be reassured that he left this to someone who could be trusted. It's all laid out in his will and final instructions. Went throught a similar deal in 2012 when my best friend passed unexpectedly and his widow was overwhelmed. That friend had his ffl but it had expired. When I called the local ATF office I was put in touch with an agent that coincidentally had done his home inspections, he was truly shaken by the news. He arranged a time to come to the house to pick up the log books/4473s without us having to box them up and ship to the warehouse.

Rough times for sure. This latest guy is a real good guy. Lover of freedom, this country, fine women, motorcycles and quality firearms. No children but very close friends and a brother so he listed the items, when/where purchased and who gets what. I'm hoping the time is longer than shorter but I was taken aback when I saw him yesterday-fading pretty fast.

Knowing that I can help in this small way will make the transition a bit smoother for him and his family and I'm honored he asked me to do so. The worst part was when he said he didn't think it'd end this way, rest brother-we got this.

Just had to get that off my chest.

[Shooter45]

Sorry to hear man; wish him, his family, and you the best.

[Grant H.]

I'm sorry to hear that he is fading.

I've dispersed firearms from estates on two different occasions. It's not easy, but it gave me a small peace of mind knowing that I was helping friends through a tough time.

[theGinsue]

Very painful situation to watch those you care for decline into death. You honor his friendship by accepting his task. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[OtterbatHellcat]

Doc45....some will say that since you knew it was coming, it's easier.

In reality, that isn't the case. I will say thank you for assisting him through his final transition. I'm doing something similar, and you're right brother.... it's a tough deal for sure.

Bless him and bless you for helping.

[buffalobo]

Sorry to hear of your friend. Kudos to you for accepting the duty.[AR15]

[Gman]

Tough stuff, but he's not ignoring the reality of the situation. Glad to hear that he trusts you. I hope this is just a bump in the road and your friend's condition improves.

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[sniper7]

Sorry to hear about this difficult time. I’m sure he is happy to know you are there to assist him with his final wishes. True sign of a great friend

[TFOGGER]

It is indeed a heavy burden. Rejoice in his trust in you to take care of his wishes. Cherish the time you have left, and celebrate the friendship.

[Mazin]

Prayers sent for peace for you and your buddy. This year has started out hard for a lot of folks, keep strong.

[pickenup]

I hope when the time comes, I have such a good friend. WTG Doc

[Great-Kazoo]

While it's tough to deal with now. This is another more reason to have ones affairs in order, sooner than later.

[Jeffrey Lebowski]

I hope when the time comes, I have such a good friend. WTG Doc

Yeah, this.

[Squeeze]

It's a hell of a thing to know death can touch those we love the most. It is a blessing you are spending time with him and helping to put his mind at ease.

[GeorgeandSugar]

My condolences to your friend. Hand shake to you for standing in there and helping out your friend and his family.[emoji106] I will pray for your friend, his family and you.✝️


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[10x]

Courage, faith and prayers to your friend and you.

[Doc45]

Thanks to you all. I’ve said it before this is a great place with great people. Those of you I’ve had the pleasure to meet have all been outstanding. Those of you I’ve just traded pm or thread conversation with have been equally top notch.

And yes, this is an example of having our affairs in order regardless of any health conditions.

[Joe_K]

Praying for you and your friend. We all know death is stalking us, but it always comes as a surprise.


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[TheGrey]

Strength to you, while undertaking this difficult task.

What an awful situation, and what a blessing to have a friend such as yourself to help them both.

[wctriumph]

Sad news. Prayers up for all concerned.

[BigBear]

Sorry to hear that Doc. It's good to get it off your chest. I've been asked to play TAPS for several close friends in the past... You wouldn't think that would be the hardest thing to do, whew.... You do honor him by helping carry out his wishes.