View Full Version : I got into some trouble at the bar last night
soldier-of-the-apocalypse
07-22-2012, 17:06
So I was at the bar last night and there was a kid that I went to high school with but he is a year younger then me and I don't know shit about him not even his name and he starts asking me all kinds of weird ass shit like where I work and live. I didn't really give him much info and he keeps pestering me and I a finally got annoyed enough to ask him what his problem was and why he was so interested in me.
He starts saying I said something to him in high school (4to7 years ago) and I asked him what I said and if he was sure it was even me and he said he wasn't sure and I explained I wasn't the type to go around bulling other kids for no reason. I didn't even know him and I apologized if I ever said anything that he didn't appreciate and we shook hands and everything seemed cool. I turned around and started talking to my friends and WACK the coward hit me on my forehead with a beer bottle. I instantly grabbed my head and pull my hand back and it's bloody. By the time I turned around my friends were on him and the bouncer was there so I couldn't do anything.
The bouncers had the coward apprehended and they took me to the bathroom and I have a 2 inch gash that most people would get stitches for but I refused emergency service. By the time the police got there the bouncers let the fu€ker go so he wasn't arrested. The police took statements from me and my friends and took pictures and the EMTs checked my vitals and advised me to go to the hospital and get stitches but I refused because Ive dealt with cuts like this before and it's not worth 5grand to fix it when I can butter fly it for 10 bucks.
My question is what do I do next I'm definitely going to press charges since I didn't even get to fight back. What do you think the charges will be I'm thinking assault with a deadly weapon. I have his name and I know where he works from facebook
Holy run on sentence!
Call the police and tell them you want to press charges. Im sure you got one of their cards last night.
Cylinder Head
07-22-2012, 17:11
You're about to get in trouble with the grammar police. Please use some paragraph breaks, periods etc so more people can understand you.
SideShow Bob
07-22-2012, 17:13
Press the charges and handle it through the courts, don't go doing anything on your own, or you will be the one needing to post bail....
Sorry to hear of your misfortune, but let the courts deal with the coward.
I would tell you how I would handle it but it would stir up a $hit storm in here. [Evil]
soldier-of-the-apocalypse
07-22-2012, 17:19
Sorry for the bad grammar my head still hurts I'm hung over and I'm typing on my phone, can you just let me slide this one time? Although revenge is what I would really like to do its the last thing on my mind because there is a open investigation right now so that would be extremely dumb.
They should of arrested his ass last night! I would definitely press the charges, hitting you with a bear bottle is got to be a good offense. I hope your buddies got a couple good hits in on his ass! Pardon my French!
I would of been all over him like flies on $hit!
yankeefan98121
07-22-2012, 17:26
Press charges to the fullest extent of the law and let the boys and girls of leo handle it. It's not what you probably want to do, on going investigation or not, but it's the smartest. Your pride may have been hurt but where it stands it can, and could have been worse. Just my .02
Tell you what, in a about a year or two from now you will have a really cool "bar fight" story to tell as well
SideShow Bob
07-22-2012, 17:33
Tell you what, in a about a year or two from now you will have a really cool "bar fight" story to tell as well
But those of us here will know the true story. [LOL]
islandermyk
07-22-2012, 17:41
Let get some pix of that scar [Tooth]
[Worth]
sorry.... I had too... [Beer]
Press charges.. your emotionally scarred for life... won't be able to go to a bar again... sue...and then try to sue for some more... Do what ever you can to keep his ass in jail as he is a threat to society and to you.
I think I already went a little over board.
Still, I'm really sorry to hear about what happened to you.... as what's already been said somewhere here "you can't pick the moment. the moment picks you" or some sh*t...
I think it's probably time for some therapy... You know to resolve all of the issues the attacker caused you to endure and that you're going to have to endure for the rest of your life due to his vicious attack...
I think it's probably time for some therapy... You know to resolve all of the issues the attacker caused you to endure and that you're going to have to endure for the rest of your life due to his vicious attack...
Yeap. I bet you won't be able to work for some time because of that idiot too.
spittoon
07-22-2012, 18:00
You're about to get in trouble with the grammar police. Please use some paragraph breaks, periods etc so more people can understand you.
Grammar what the hell the dude got bashed. I hope your buddy's got a few good punches in.
GilpinGuy
07-22-2012, 18:17
Don't you have blurred vision now that you'll have to live with the rest of your life? Or maybe you can't get it up now and that's causing irreversible emotional distress? Perhaps you feel dizzy most of the time now and can't work....
I'm kidding of course. Do the right thing and just press assault charges. He truly deserves that.
Luckily you weren't "seriously" hurt and had any of the symptoms I listed above happen.
I saw a guy get permanent brain damage from getting sucker punched and his head slammed into the concrete when he was knocked out cold and fell backward. Makes my stomach turn thinking about it to this day. The look on the poor guys face....burned into my brain. All because the guy "talked to his girlfriend". [Bang]
BPTactical
07-22-2012, 18:21
Sounds like somebodies mouth wrote a check their ass couldnt cash.
Let the cops handle it. You do anything now you are a "retaliator" and pre meditated.
Lex_Luthor
07-22-2012, 18:25
Sorry to hear! Cowards like that deserve so much more than a good ass beating. Definitely press charges!
argonstrom
07-22-2012, 18:36
So, did you get that one hot chick's number?
Had a friend of a friend die from getting hit in the head with a bottle....press charges send his ass to jail
So, what did you call the poor kid that he has carried it around for so long? It has obviously eaten at his very soul. Really, I want to know. Sounds like some good $hiat to try out on some local nit wits. [Muaha]
soldier-of-the-apocalypse
07-22-2012, 19:04
So, what did you call the poor kid that he has carried it around for so long? It has obviously eaten at his very soul. Really, I want to know. Sounds like some good $hiat to try out on some local nit wits. [Muaha]
I ave no idea and he couldn't even tell me when I asked him what I said and he wasn't ever sure if it was me I'm sure he had a hard time in high school because he is the punk rocker type that has long hair and wears black clothes. Like I said I wasn't the type to go around picking on every kid that that was different but I did talk my fair share of shit but I don't even remember this kid at all.
Drilldov2.0
07-22-2012, 19:06
Same thing happened to me. An angry bottle of Bud committed suicide on my face, courtesy of a drunken Marine. Not sure if it was a concussion or I just went into Tasmanian devil mode. But the next thing I remember I was being held against a wall by a group of guys and the Marine was out cold, bleeding at my feet. He split my lip with bottle and chipped a few teeth. Glad it didn't get my eye. Get yourself checked out just in case. Let the police handle it. My assailant got hammered by the courts and me. The best part is that Marines picked him up after the hospital and jail. Never saw him again. I don't even want to know how they disciplined him. Glad you are okay.
Yeah, I'd say to lawyer up and press charges. Crucify him the way anybody else would crucify you. Not just an assault charge either, go for the whole nine yards like has been mentioned. Lost work time, mental anguish, headaches, whatever you and The Strong Arm can come up with.
Let get some pix of that scar [Tooth]
[Worth]
sorry.... I had too... [Beer]
Press charges.. your emotionally scarred for life... won't be able to go to a bar again... sue...and then try to sue for some more... Do what ever you can to keep his ass in jail as he is a threat to society and to you.
I think I already went a little over board.
Still, I'm really sorry to hear about what happened to you.... as what's already been said somewhere here "you can't pick the moment. the moment picks you" or some sh*t...
Get an attorney, file for a restraining order and sue him in civil court for assault. Probably worth at least a couple grand. Make sure you get witness statements now from everyone present, record them with your phone, etc. Document it, because people don't like to testify at trials and get fuzzy memories. You will need medical bills, experts to prove damages.
A civil restraining order is pretty hard care, no weapons, no communication with you etc. Definitely get it, bring witnesses.
If he has a job and or assets, you may be able to get them. Good Luck.
spittoon
07-22-2012, 19:47
i have to agree we need some proof[Worth]
Great-Kazoo
07-22-2012, 22:55
I ave no idea and he couldn't even tell me when I asked him what I said and he wasn't ever sure if it was me I'm sure he had a hard time in high school because he is the punk rocker type that has long hair and wears black clothes. Like I said I wasn't the type to go around picking on every kid that that was different but I did talk my fair share of shit but I don't even remember this kid at all.
So you did his sister or girl friend, fess up..
SA Friday
07-22-2012, 23:26
No pics, didn't happen.[Pepsi]
I had something similar happen to me years ago when I was 21. Same thing except this was a guy I worked with and he was crying in front of his girl and the whole bar when he seen me. When I asked what I did to him? He screamed at me saying you know what you did! you made my life hell. I really had no idea that I did anything worse to him than I did to anyone else I worked with. I do not remember the details but it was very similar to your story except he used his hands. I let it go and just figured I would be better prepared if I ever seen him again, will I did and he was very apologetic do to not being drunk. I also apologized for anything I had done. I was the bigger man and chalked it up to being drunk and it worked out as far as I am concerned.
I am not saying you were, but I sure am glad I wasn't a bully during HS.
I am not saying you were, but I sure am glad I wasn't a bully during HS.
Word. I always got along with everybody. I played all the sports and was a starter so I was fairly popular but I also got good grades so I didn't fit in completely with the jocks. Anyway the less popular kids always appreciated that I treated them well and it's a good thing too because you never know when one might snap. It's like in billy Madison or for real life like columbine. They let one kid live because he was nice to them.
DANGERTASTIC!
07-22-2012, 23:52
If you had watched Billy Madison last week then you could have avoided ALL OF THIS!! lol
Sorry to hear man. I hate HATE gettin suckerpunched. The last time was a few years back.....the DAY before our christmas pictures! Haha
That shit sucks man, it hurts your pride more than anything, especially when you cant get att the liitle B--ch to beat him senseless.
So you were sucker punched(hit) with a glass beer bottle and you are gushing with blood, the cops and paramedics get called and the bouncers just let this guy go...??....hmmmm
So I was at the bar last night and there was a kid that I went to high school with but he is a year younger then me and I don't know shit about him not even his name and he starts asking me all kinds of weird ass shit like where I work and live. I didn't really give him much info and he keeps pestering me and I a finally got annoyed enough to ask him what his problem was and why he was so interested in me.
He starts saying I said something to him in high school (4to7 years ago) and I asked him what I said and if he was sure it was even me and he said he wasn't sure and I explained I wasn't the type to go around bulling other kids for no reason. I didn't even know him and I apologized if I ever said anything that he didn't appreciate and we shook hands and everything seemed cool. I turned around and started talking to my friends and WACK the coward hit me on my forehead with a beer bottle. I instantly grabbed my head and pull my hand back and it's bloody. By the time I turned around my friends were on him and the bouncer was there so I couldn't do anything.
The bouncers had the coward apprehended and they took me to the bathroom and I have a 2 inch gash that most people would get stitches for but I refused emergency service. By the time the police got there the bouncers let the fu€ker go so he wasn't arrested. The police took statements from me and my friends and took pictures and the EMTs checked my vitals and advised me to go to the hospital and get stitches but I refused because Ive dealt with cuts like this before and it's not worth 5grand to fix it when I can butter fly it for 10 bucks.
My question is what do I do next I'm definitely going to press charges since I didn't even get to fight back. What do you think the charges will be I'm thinking assault with a deadly weapon. I have his name and I know where he works from facebook
Turn that information into the police, immediately. Let them do their job. Cooperate fully.
The applicable charge would be Assault in the Second Degree or First Degree, depending on whether or not you have Serious Bodily Injury/Disfigurement.
Since you were/are a tough guy and refused medical, you also don't get a SBI letter from a doctor. This means the suspect will more than likely be charged with Assault 2. It is a felony.
Future reference, let medical assist you. I'm sure it was the beer talking, but there are other things at play here. You could have a closed head injury that shows itself later on. Not good. Also, once this guy is prosecuted, victim assistance and victims comp can help with medical bills. Restitution is also common place in sentencing.
Glad you were not hurt more seriously. [Beer]
BREATHER
07-23-2012, 04:59
Well, it was Brighton after all, probably a meth freak....
Bailey Guns
07-23-2012, 07:51
Oh, yeah...now I remember why I don't hang out in bars where lots of drunk people tend to congregate.
hghclsswhitetrsh
07-23-2012, 09:18
Well, it was Brighton after all, probably a meth freak....
Wow good job.
soldier-of-the-apocalypse
07-23-2012, 09:39
http://i492.photobucket.com/albums/rr286/appliancenation/d8e37b32.jpg?t=1343057034
you guys may not be impressed but I just re did my butterflys and snaped a pic
hghclsswhitetrsh
07-23-2012, 09:44
Just out of curiosity what bar?
soldier-of-the-apocalypse
07-23-2012, 09:54
http://www.mmaconvert.com/wp-content/uploads/post-images/diego_sanchez_after_penn.jpg
but this is how it looked when I went to the bathroom to clean up. I was at jordinellis or whatever the name is on the back patio
josh7328
07-23-2012, 10:21
Oh, yeah...now I remember why I don't hang out in bars where lots of drunk people tend to congregate.
+1 MILLION. Vast majority of really bad stuff happens or begins at a bar. No thank you. I refuse to put myself in a high risk situation ANNDD give up carrying... If somebody attacks me, they get shot. If I do that in a bar or under the influence of alcohol, that means jail time for me. Nope.
lpgasman
07-23-2012, 10:34
Holy run on sentence!
Call the police and tell them you want to press charges. Im sure you got one of their cards last night.
[ROFL2][ROFL3] I wondered why I felt like I was out of breath. Press full charges.
I will be 100% shocked if anything comes out of this. When I got jumped in Denver, it was caught on video. Denver detective told me he couldn't do anything unless the guys turned themselves in.
soldier-of-the-apocalypse
07-23-2012, 11:41
i have to agree we need some proof[Worth]
I will be 100% shocked if anything comes out of this. When I got jumped in Denver, it was caught on video. Denver detective told me he couldn't do anything unless the guys turned themselves in.
I know his name where he works and some freinds told me where he lives now
Byte Stryke
07-23-2012, 12:21
I will be 100% shocked if anything comes out of this. When I got jumped in Denver, it was caught on video. Denver detective told me he couldn't do anything unless the guys turned themselves in.
Civil court is a different world
I know his name where he works and some freinds told me where he lives now
I had the plate number of their vehicle on tape and basically since the police didn't know for sure that the owner was the same as the perp, they stopped there.
Seems like this would stand a better chance of going somewhere in Brighton as opposed to Denver.
I had the plate number of their vehicle on tape and basically since the police didn't know for sure that the owner was the same as the perp, they stopped there.
Knowing Denver, he could have been covering for some of his buddies.
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