Quote Originally Posted by generalmeow View Post
You view your friends and family as people that might be able to bring you all the physical things you want at this one occasion where you feel they're obligated to bring you gifts. I didn't view them that way at my wedding. I felt guilty about everything we got, and I didn't ask for anything. I felt most moved by the people who I knew were struggling financially who got us a couple of glass mugs. That's what it's about.

Take it or leave it. Put me on your ignore list. What do I know?
The way you worded your response makes it look like your way is the only acceptable way, and anyone who does not follow your advice is a horrible person. Thank you for your opinion, I will take it into consideration.