divorces and bipolarism

[Eggysrun]

My soon to be ex-wife knew she had borderline personality disorder and depression but refused to take any kind of medication while married and took offense when I suggested it. When it came to counseling I'm fairly certain she was lying and avoiding major issues just to appear to me that she was trying to help herself.

Now that we are getting divorced NOW she wants to get meds to help herself. I laughed because once the divorce kicks in (Feb 1st) she won't have health insurance to pay for her meds or counseling.

Question for the OP. How are old are these people getting divorced? My wife was in her early 20's, clear narcissistic traits, very childish and feeling entitled like most people from her generation. Wondering if there is a generation corerellation

[hatidua]

Wondering if there is a generation corerellation

While I cannot speak to the age of those getting divorced who have issues, I have a hard time thinking all of these elementary kids on mood-altering drugs are going to just 'snap out of it' when they walk down the aisle at their wedding.