Is the letter apologetic? Is your wife trying to make amends? If so, sending it may yield healthy results.
Is the letter accusatory? Is she just speaking her mind? Don't send it.
Is the letter apologetic? Is your wife trying to make amends? If so, sending it may yield healthy results.
Is the letter accusatory? Is she just speaking her mind? Don't send it.
My Feedback
"When law and morality contradict each other, the citizen has the cruel alternative of either losing his moral sense or losing his respect for the law." -Frederic Bastiat
"I am a conservative. Quite possibly I am on the losing side; often I think so. Yet, out of a curious perversity I had rather lose with Socrates, let us say, than win with Lenin."
― Russell Kirk, Author of The Conservative Mind
What's wrong with her speaking her mind ? Sometimes one has to call a family member out. No matter how hard it is. It either cures or kills off the relationship. In her case might be better to do so. Outside the OP's post we really don't know the family dynamic. Based on his post the sister is a trouble making O2 breather. You want to mend fences with that?
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"when you're happy you enjoy the melody but, when you're broken you understand the lyrics".