Need recommendations for a Tow vehicle.

[meatman]

Something with auto-leveling suspension that eliminates the need for a weight distribution hitch, even though the 3500 lb trailer doesn't really need it. It helps keep everything more stable. The only examples I can think of off hand are the VW Touareg V8 (we have the V10TDI and tow a 4000lb+ 21ft travel trailer), or a newer Grand Cherokee.

[brutal]

Something with auto-leveling suspension that eliminates the need for a weight distribution hitch, even though the 3500 lb trailer doesn't really need it. It helps keep everything more stable. The only examples I can think of off hand are the VW Touareg V8 (we have the V10TDI and tow a 4000lb+ 21ft travel trailer), or a newer Grand Cherokee.

Auto leveling doesn't redistribute weight, it just raises the rear of the tow vehicle.

A weight distribution hitch transfers load further to the front of the tow vehicle using leverage. The best WD hitches also include good anti-sway control and easy hookup. I've been happy with my Equal-i-zer WD friction hitch but I only use it to tow my 20' boat behind my 5th wheel. It tames the little bit of sway I was getting but also controls the pogo you get pulling doubles.

However, agree while it's probably not really necessary for a #3500 trailer, sway control with a short wheelbase SUV is going to be needed.