So against my advice my friend went out and bought a "Nickel Plated sissy pistol" much like this:

It's a Smith & Wesson, which he likes the brand (and so do I) but this is a little flashy for his first pistol and he plans to carry it, plus it reminds me of the part in U.S. Marshals when Tommy Lee tells RDJ to ditch the "nickel plated sissy pistol" for a Glock. I didn't suggest Glock, but I said if you wanna stick with S&W go with the M&P. If not, I back Sig and pretty much any good 1911 (Dan Wesson and Nighthawk are out b/c of price) manuf. is another advised route to go. I told him how much I like my Springfield 1911GI, and how Colt 1911's are good, but then he goes this route... what can you do? I'll just let him be and tell him to enjoy it lol.