Sorry to hear pal, keep your head up and god bless you.
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Sorry to hear pal, keep your head up and god bless you.
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The nutshell version.
It sucks now. It will suck for the near future. You will get through it. It will get better.
Good luck.
Micheal HoffHard times make strong men
Strong men create good times
Good times create weak men
Weak men create hard times
no one else has said this .. but I will
GET A LAWYER.
My ex and I seemed to have it all worked out .. and were going to split it off all fair....
then she got a the idea to get mean about it. I dunno where she got it exactly .. but in conversations years after the fact ... her has eluded to her family pushing her into it .
She had a lawyer I didn't (I could not afford one.). I had to buy my own jeep back from her ( was in her name for a short time.. I owned it 3 years before we even met) had to pay all of our mutual bills and pay for her lawyer. Cost me 12K all because I didn't have a lawyer. yeah I got railroaded.
At least talk to one and be ready .
Moral of the story .. never trust a woman in a divorce. She might get a wild hair up her ass and pound you.
I've never been married, and after all the friends that have gone through the same thing. I dont think I want to!! Hope it works out for you!!!! If you want to talk, send a PM.
I've been there, done that twice now. I'm on my third, and glad I kept to it. Some things I will say though, be friends first, have a long "relationship" second, and get married if it lasts and you can't be without eachother third. It was the last two that I failed at one after the other with the first two marriages. That is all of my relationship (leading to marriage) advice that I have.
If you make something idiot proof, someone will make a better idiot... Forget youth, what we need is a fountain of smart. There are no stupid questions, just a lot of inquisitive idiots.Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It's the transition that's troublesome. --Isaac AsimovLike, where's spyder been? That guy was like, totally cool and stuff. - foxtrot
Crap, that's some good advise there. Apparently my cynical attitude has worn down a bit. lolOriginally Posted by clublights
Anyway, good words there. Even though it was uncontested, I did run our agreement past an attorney (best $250 I've spent) to make sure I was covered. He included several clauses in the agreement that I would have otherwise not known about.
I definitely would recommend chatting with an attorney, even if for just an hour -- it can save you quite a bit of trouble in the long run...
This probably isn't the reply you are hoping for, but if it was
mutual..... Your golden. Don't be bitter. You got out easier than most.
Enjoy your new life and don't look back. Get off you putty pot and be thankful
you are not dragging kids through a divorce and then dealing with your ex for
the rest of your life. No alimony, no child support and minimal amount for a lawyer.
FWIW I spent $20k on my divorce to ensure I didn't become a weekend Dad.
Like the saying goes, it can always be worse.
Now ya know... Why make one mad when you can make 'em all happy?!?
Why is Divorce so expensive..???
Because its worth it.
Happily divorced.
The Sun will come up again.
Don't wait for it, Just keep living and enjoying this time of your life.
Chin up brother, it will get better
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