Dating advice, or Redneck's dear diary thread

[Ronin13]

Dated a few women with kids, the key thing to remember here- YOU WILL NEVER COME FIRST. They're looking out for their kid first and foremost, you are, at best, a close second. As long as you keep that in mind just let the river take you and go with the flow. Of course it didn't help that one (two kids, two separate dads- warning sign #1) was effing crazy. My personal views as of late, and this is me, you all may be different, I want to start a family one day, not fall into an already made one. Good luck Redneck!

[Sparky]

Dated a few women with kids, the key thing to remember here- YOU WILL NEVER COME FIRST. They're looking out for their kid first and foremost, you are, at best, a close second. As long as you keep that in mind just let the river take you and go with the flow. Of course it didn't help that one (two kids, two separate dads- warning sign #1) was effing crazy. My personal views as of late, and this is me, you all may be different, I want to start a family one day, not fall into an already made one. Good luck Redneck!

Oh to be young and dumb again. If she is the right girl the existing child can be a blessing on a growing family.

[Ronin13]

Oh to be young and dumb again.

C'mon man, seriously? Youth does not equate stupidity. I simply was saying my preferences. No need to insinuate (that means to suggest or hint at).