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    Gives a sh!t; pretends he doesn't HoneyBadger's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by davsel View Post
    Depends on what you are looking for.
    You'll soon discover if she is a good mother - before having her raise your kids.
    You'll have to deal with the father to some degree. You'll learn a lot about how she deals with him also.
    Play it out - should not be a disqualifier, but will be additional baggage.
    Good luck

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    Should have put the disclaimer at the beginning of your post so we knew in advance not to read the rest of it!
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    At least you know she puts out.
    What is my joy if all hands, even the unclean, can reach into it? What is my wisdom, if even the fools can dictate to me? What is my freedom, if all creatures, even the botched and impotent, are my masters? What is my life, if I am but to bow, to agree and to obey?
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    I've got the instant family too. Every point I could say has already been said

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    Dated a few women with kids, the key thing to remember here- YOU WILL NEVER COME FIRST. They're looking out for their kid first and foremost, you are, at best, a close second. As long as you keep that in mind just let the river take you and go with the flow. Of course it didn't help that one (two kids, two separate dads- warning sign #1) was effing crazy. My personal views as of late, and this is me, you all may be different, I want to start a family one day, not fall into an already made one. Good luck Redneck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ronin13 View Post
    Dated a few women with kids, the key thing to remember here- YOU WILL NEVER COME FIRST. They're looking out for their kid first and foremost, you are, at best, a close second. As long as you keep that in mind just let the river take you and go with the flow. Of course it didn't help that one (two kids, two separate dads- warning sign #1) was effing crazy. My personal views as of late, and this is me, you all may be different, I want to start a family one day, not fall into an already made one. Good luck Redneck!

    Oh to be young and dumb again. If she is the right girl the existing child can be a blessing on a growing family.
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    I'm married to a woman who came with 3 kids. I have absolutely no regrets about marrying her, and look forward to spending the rest of my life with her. However, I think she's an exception when it comes to women. By and large, I would heartily encourage you to not get involved with a woman who has kids. Dated a lot of single mothers over the years, and there's more baggage there than anywhere else in the dating scene.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sparky View Post
    Oh to be young and dumb again.
    C'mon man, seriously? Youth does not equate stupidity. I simply was saying my preferences. No need to insinuate (that means to suggest or hint at).
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    DO NOT DO IT! RUN!

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    ^This^

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    Quote Originally Posted by Monky View Post
    DO NOT DO IT! RUN!
    Along those lines...
    "There is no news in the truth, and no truth in the news."
    "The revolution will not be televised... Instead it will be filmed from multiple angles via cell phone cameras, promptly uploaded to YouTube, Tweeted about, and then shared on Facebook, pending a Wi-Fi connection."

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