When I read some emails to her best friend about her new friend in MT. It was like a kick in the nuts. Absolute and total trust just dissolved.

Quote Originally Posted by DD977GM2 View Post
In Colorado, it is a no fault state. Adultery has no bearing on the divorce case what so ever. She could be railed by every CO citizen and would still not hold any weight in court.
Yep.

We were able to keep it together enough to divide up everything, write it down and sign the paperwork. After that was not pleasant.

The word lawyer came up once. When I told her that if lawyers get involved neither of us would walk away with anything, she was more willing to sit down at the table (which she got).

The two of you can do all the divorce papers on your own. The courthouse will provide the paper work but you will have to ask for each document. They will provide no "legal" advise. I kept asking what was needed to cover all the bases, getting a little more info each time I asked.

Not sure where you are but there is a place in west Boulder County that be used for any storage needs you may have. PM if needed.

Thank you for dredging up an 11 year old nightmare.

Good luck. This won't be easy but the faster you cut it loose and get on with YOUR life, the better.