
Originally Posted by
jim
People need to stop equating BIGGER with being OK. Here's what you need to ask yourself and the X.
Can she clear a jam in under 1.5 sec
Can she rack the slide if a FTFire happens in under 1.5 sec
Can she clear a stovepipe in under 1.5 sec
I am going out on limb and say the answer to all the above is no. Your level of training transferring over to an inexperienced shooter no matter how much you know, will only sink in and register so far.
She doesn't need a bigger gun, she needs a gun she can handle well, be able to hit COM (consistently) with, feel comfortable and confident with, every time she uses it.
Get her a revolver and let her learn on that. Getting her a 40 or 45 because that is what you feel comfortable with could put her in danger if not cost her, her life.
What works for you sure as hell does not work for every one. I cannot tell you how many MEN sent their SO to a class with their 45, and they were a danger to not only themselves but anyone within range.
Once in CA see about going to an indoor range that rents guns. Spend the money, before spending the money.
Fell free to Flame away.