Death.

[Ashton]

I'm really sorry to hear all of this...

.. I'm really not good at this sh*t...

You've really been through some hard times... but for me, I would go to a service...

Keep your head up and continue to be strong man...

I just honestly feel like once someones dead they're dead. I've watched quite a few people die and they don't come back. Which is why I feel that sitting in chairs listening to stories and shit isn't going to do any good or bring them back which is why I honestly don't wan't to go. In reality you'll remember them for the person they were no matter what. No "service" is going to change that IMHO. I just don't see the point in sitting in a chair with tons of people crying around you. But I'm not quite sure if it's disrespectful.

[ChadAmberg]

I just honestly feel like once someones dead they're dead. I've watched quite a few people die and they don't come back. Which is why I feel that sitting in chairs listening to stories and shit isn't going to do any good or bring them back which is why I honestly don't wan't to go. In reality you'll remember them for the person they were no matter what. No "service" is going to change that IMHO. I just don't see the point in sitting in a chair with tons of people crying around you. But I'm not quite sure if it's disrespectful.

My wife and I feel the same way as you. Once you're dead, you're dead. They have the luxury of not caring anymore.The only reason to go is if you were close with other people who would be there at the ceremony. Personally, unless that was the case, I'd simply go myself sometime later for a private rememberance.

[rockhound]

you will never regret going, will you ever regret not going?